

There is usually a ring leader gathering the troops for the assault and because they are joined together, you begin to wonder whether it is you that is the problem.ĥ.

Gossip only serves one family member to get others to gang up on you and you are left defenseless against the false beliefs about you being thrown your way. If you find yourself obsessed with the gossip about you and trying to right wrong information, and you are constantly being ostracized to the point you are losing sleep over it, you are becoming poisoned with their toxicity. When your emotions are totally caught up in defending yourself and wanting to explain yourself and the chaos of your relationships with these people is all you talk about, it is time to let go.Ĥ. When the relationship creates so much stress that it affects the important areas of your life at work, home or both. The contact you have with them serves to bring you down, put you down and/or make you feel you are not good enough, or you haven't done enough for them.ģ. It is time to terminate a relationship when the only contact you have with them is negative. When you are living in constant anxiety never knowing or being able to predict how any engagement is going to turn out, it is time to love yourself enough to let go.Ģ. When the relationship is based in manipulation, overt or covert, you can be sure you are being used and abused. When the relationship is based in any kind of abuse, mentally, physically, sexually, verbally or emotionally. Campbell's 7 reasons to terminate relationships with family:ġ.
